hi & thanks for even taking the time to reply to this.... ive written down what i know, then done a ridiculas attempt to start the family tree on here, ive done me, my mum, my nan, my great grandmother & her husband.... (i know youve already read what ive done but...) she was isabella nixon paulin born 10th feb 1912 (as far as we know) born sunderland, (died in the 80's in sleaford as she was in a home) she moved to birmingham & was married to robert gordon stuart, he died suddenly of a heart attack around the age of 50-55? they had 3 daughters, dorothy stuart born 19th nov 1935 think she was married twice? died in france in the 80's after a long battle with cancer, rosemary gillian stuart born 6th nov 1941 (this is my nan & very much alive :-)), youngest daughter is diane stuart born 3rd april 1944 & still lives in birmingham. great nan isabella was one of (we think) between 7-12 children? we know she had a sister rose? & a dorothy? but apparently near all of her brothers died in the war? isabella was also the youngest & was a huge suprise as she was supposed to be a cyst! :-/ she would never speak of her family, the most she said was she was a forster but was not allowed to use the surname?
all i can do is apologise about how ridiculas at this i am!
but thanks again for the advice! :-D