Thank you for all your effort!! I hope it's understandable why this can be a bit confusing. I do see what your talking about why one would believe that it is the same family because of the surrounding neighbors. I am going to believe that at least one child have had to died, a later census says the mother only has 9 children... On the other hand some of these children did grow up to have families, one being my 2nd great grand father. Unfortunately there is just no relatives that I can communicate with, to help sort this out.
Again thanks for all your help, its very much appreciated!!!