Hi Moira
Happy to hear you are finally getting somewhere. Please, please do not ever give up your search. I know it 'does your head in' trying to find our ancestors but sometimes it is worth the wait. It took me several years to find a member of my husband's family but finally tracked him down. At one point, like yourself I was ready to finish searching for this person but suddenly I kept finding little bits of information. Then all was well, I even found parts of the family my husband didn't know about. So what I am saying is, it was worth the wait.
Please get back to us and let us know how you have got on, for now take care and happy hunting.
Kind regards
Joy