My GG Grandmother was Philomine Manning Smith(1841-1929) who was married to my GG Grandfather Emanuel Joseph Smith(1841-1899). They are laid to rest in St Mary's Missouri Cemetery next to my Great Grandparents Lawrence F and Ada Miles Smith and my Aunt Irene their daughter and my Grandfather's sister. I have traced my Smith side to Maryland 1772? myself and also wish a copy of the O'Rourke book because I have run into a brick wall.
Philomine's children were Lawrence, Hattie, and Vincent. When she was widowed she married a widower named Peter Dean on 11/26/1900. Hope that helps you.
Sincerely, Linnea Smith Volkmar