Dear Mel,
I am so sorry for the loss of your nephew; my heart goes out to you and your whole family!! It's no wonder you are able to relate w/ the victims and their families; as can many of us due to loosing a loved one atleast once. Although life forces you to move on; it's still in some way a heartache that stays w/ you forever... a year ago probably seems like yesterday, and I am so sorry!! God bless you and yours...
Always,
Stefanie