OK, just doing some other checking and starting on the Ogden side I find the Ogden family book that identifies Phebe as marrying Samuel. Of interest to me, so thank you, is that her sister Elizabeth m. Dr. Oliver Barnet. of New Germantown NJ. Dr. Barnet during the revolution served as Regimental Surgeon for the 4th Hunterdon Regiment of Militia. My gx4 gf was the Colonel of the Regiment during the revolution and became Brigadier of the Hunterdon Brigade after the war. Dr. Barnet was later a Judge and I have many land documents executed by my g4 in front of Dr. Barnet. Dr. Barnet eventually obtained a great deal of my Grandfather's land due to debts incurred during the War.
In an online version of the Whitaker family history I find where post 1794 a Nathaniel Whitaker m. 2nd Ruth Haines, daughter of Samuel Haines, near Vealtown, and had a daughter Hannah who married Nicholas Arrowsmith Jun. Esq.
http://www.rootsweb.ancestry.com/~njmorris/passaicvalley/whi... (Vealtown is now know as Bernardstown)
A search of the Haines name in Findagrave for the state of NJ finds a great many of that name many from the 1700/1800's.
Henry Hains was born ca~ 1687 no place of birth.
An interesting tidbit from a 1916 edition of the Somerset County Historical Quarterly
https://archive.org/stream/somersetcountyhi05hone#page/272/m... states on p. 273 the following Haynes-Haines - James came from England about 1637 to Salem, Mass; died there abouth 1653; wife Mary ----. Sons were John Benjamin, James, Jonathan and Thomas. Through Benjamin descend the New Jersey families of the name. (no source give for his information)
I used the search parameter on Google of - Samuel Haines, Basking Ridge NJ, 1795
OK, you've probably already got those if not then hope they help.
Regards,
Tim