Your grandmother, Stella Chargois would have been my 1st cousin; her mother, Stella Jones(Chargois)was my daddy's sister. I never knew my aunt Stella. You are from a very large family...! Our Family reunion has been planned and is set for the weekend of July 20 thru 22, 2012. If interested contact me thru my message board on ancestory.com. (Why was your grandmother raised by her aunt & uncle?)