I found out one of my matches , connected but didn't connect. Because it wasn't a blood connection just a marriage connection. Is that possible? I'm having trouble with most my matches I have one 3rd cousin ,can not find where we connect. Sent message, but no response, but am able to see tree. Have quit a few 4th cousin at 96 % . Some answered messages, but still hard to connect. Maybe I do not have enough generation on my trees.