sorry about not replie.;before have had alot of medical problems......anyway i've never found my grandmothers grave.emma elizabeth stidman married my grandfather issac rice, then to a smithy. buried in coalgate cemetry ,coal county,oklahoma. i'd loved to have a picture of her grave. appreciate very much if anyone could help. i'm in maine. as you can see it would be very hard for my to find!thanks forany help Diane from maine