Kimberly --
Thank you so much for your response!
Mary V. Yaegher Ley is a question mark in our family tree and so I was very excited to get your reply and to see she's a relative of your husband's!
My cousin Barbara (who lives in Wilmington) and I thought that perhaps her husband was Carl Ley, my grandfather's brother, but we could find no record of him at all. She is listed in the 1920 census as being a widow, with two children. Barbara remembers meeting Albert Ley, her son, when she was a teenager.
I'd like to correspond with you directly if you wouldn't mind writing me at my personal e-mail address:
ruthiek@telocity.com.
As for my grandparent's graves in Riverview, Barbara's son found Catherine Ley's grave, but not Rudolph Ley's.
Rudolph had two siblings: Carl Ley and Lina Ley.
We know that Rudolph's sister, Lina, married Charles Yaegher. We have sent for the death certificate of "Lena Yeagher," but don't know yet if it's our great-aunt. The only Charles Yaegher I could discover through the social security death index died in Florida and Barbara doesn't remember her Aunt Lina ever moving to Florida.
According to his death certificate, my great-grandfather, David Ley, is also buried in Riverview.
I mention the names Carl Ley, Lina Ley Yeagher and David Ley, just in case you happen to see the names in the cemetery while you're looking for your husband's grandparents' graves (or know anything about them from your research into your husband's family tree).
My cousins in Wilmington will be very excited to learn we have distant cousins still living in Delaware!
Looking forward to hearing from you soon!
Ruth