You're right, apparently I did not understand your question (and, oddly enough, this time I got a different memorial, entered by the same user, when I clicked the link - originally, I got this one:
http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GSln=a&...; ).
As an experiment, I clicked the edit tab, then the link for "other suggestions and comments" and it said that this user's account has been disabled and there is no way to reach him/her.