My mom, Victoria Louise Moith (Benci) & I (age 3 in 1943) traveled to a New Jersey beach from New York. She dropped me off with a public sitter and went to the beach. When my mom didn't come to get me, I went to an orphanage for a few months. My aunt Margie Patay finally came and got me. I was told that she died in the water.
I have been looking for her grave and unable to find it. I had combed through newspapers and couldn't find what happened to her that day. I do not know if she was even married to my dad.
Does anybody know what happened to her? Where is she buried? Was she married to my father Charles Lucas Benci (Bencze)?