Hi Christine Phyllis was my mother,s sister I was born at auntie Phyllis & uncle Toms house & I was born the same day they buried my grandfather . uncle Tom & auntie Phyllis helped to bring me up with my grandmother who I lived with for a few years.When I was born dad was in the army during the war so I suppose auntie Phyllis & uncle Tom took my mom in till dad came home from the war.uncle Tom was a quiet man in the respect of he never spoke about his family.I lived with my grandmother till I was 15yrs then I went back to live with my parents in Rotherham.I have a photo ofuncle Tom him as a lad with his mother Esther outside his house it looked like the slums in Wombwell.His mother is image of auntie phyllis they say men sometimes marry someone who look like their mother.Are you some kind of relative of the family Jenny