Hi Sandi,
This is the wrong message board to post questions for help, it's for telling others of successes.

Try posting your questions on the Collins surname board http://boards.ancestry.com/surnames.collins/mb.ashx or the Headley board at http://boards.ancestry.com/surnames.headley/mb.ashx

There are also state and county boards, which sometimes gets you more help than the surname boards.

Good luck.
Jo