Thanks much -- that's very helpful. What I did to make the big mistake was to search on "Edith Deeley," and add parents to her, then I think I got a message from someone who had clearly done a ton of research -- he explained all these connections to me, I added a bunch of people to the tree, and then thought oh duh, how stupid -- Deeley was her married name, not her maiden name, so I added family from clearly the wrong Edith Deeley. So that's a big chunk I need to get rid of.