Is there any way to see how a member is connected to oneselve by their member name?

I have around 500-600 people in my tree and often as I began to put it up I would just click connect, connect, connect to everyone who was a match for that person so I'm sure I have several thousand connections by now.

On the Recent Member Activity, I noticed that a connected member put up a relative of a friend and now I'm wondering if I am related to my friend somehow. Unfortunately this member has a 40,000 person tree so it's not really feasible to scan her whole list looking for one of my 500, but is there a way to see with which relative I connected her without going person by person through my list?