Lynda,

I too was adopted and without the slightest clue as how to proceed finding birth parents. I am fortunate to live in the State of Washington where there is an organization called WARM (Washington Adoptees Reunion Movement). Below is their contact info - you might want to email them and ask if there is a similar organization for Oklahoma, specifically the Lawton (Comanche County)area.

Through a confidential intermediary assigned by WARM I was able to (for a $100.00 fee) get copies of my adoption file which contained all the adoption paper work filled out by both my birth mother (which included my supposed birth father's name) and my adoptive parents giving me all sorts of information to follow up on. I was able to meet some of my biological family - no, it wasn't a "warm fuzzy", believe me. However, I did find information that began to fill that void in my life as to who I came from.

Just keep at it - it takes awhile but in the end it's all worth it.
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Washington Adoption Reunion Movement
WARM Office hours are 8:30a - 1:0p Mon - Thurs.

Holiday hours 12/19 - 1/2/08 - limited.

Voicemail and email will be monitored daily and all concerns will

be addressed promptly.

5950 Sixth Avenue South
Suite 213
Seattle, WA 98108

Phone: (206) 767-9510, 24-hour voice mail system

Fax: (206) 763-4803

Website: www.warmsearch.org

Email: warm@warmsearch.org

WARM is a non-profit organization exempt from federal income tax under section 501 (c) (3) of the IRS code.
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Good luck in your search!! [PS my adopted dad and his family were from Lawton - that's how I saw your posting]

Lynn