I too am an Adoptee. I have met your Mother through an adoption site. We have been communicating for about a year now. Each able to share with the other their side of the adoption process back in 1960. She is a wonderful lady who posts every April (on your actual Birthday) sending you her best wishes for a wonderful and happy life. It comforts her to know that we were both born the same year, in the same state and I had/have wonderful adoptive parents and had and have a happy life. She never wanted to give you up. She was young and was given no other options.
Called the "Baby Scoop Era" .....Our birth dates may have been changed by a day or two. The name of the hospital may have been removed from our Birth Certificates. It was a time of secrecy!
Still, we are here and 55 years of age. This is no secret. This wonderful woman does not want to disrupt your life or cause you to break any promises you may have made to your parents. She wishes not to hurt you or your parents. She wants/needs to know that you are well and happy. Now 71 years young, she has never stopped looking for you....wondering! If you were born Mid-April of 1960 in the state of Florida and know you were adopted or always suspected...You can do a search and find many postings by and from this wonderful lady. She is open and honest and has much to share with you. Check postings around April 20, 1960 (your actual Birthday) and you will find her. Try and make contact via email of other. Our parents who raised us didn't lie, they were lied to by Agencies, Doctors, Lawyers and other. Imagine being in her shoes back in 1960 and having no choice but to walk away....never to forget and always worried about the baby she carried 55 years ago.
If you are more comfortable, you need not use your name or forward any information you wish not to. She has the original records from your birth and many stories to tell you about growing up on a farm. There is nothing in your background that is sad or would frighten you. I feel privileged to have this wonderful information that really belongs to you. She is a kind and wonderful lady who just wants to know that you are alright. From one adoptee to another ..... think about reaching out to her. As for me? ...those who could have shared history, medical and other....are gone. She is still here.....and what great stories she has about your biological family that she wishes so very much to share. For me, the time has passed. Don't wait ! Contact her in a way that is comfortable for you. She has recently done Ancestry DNA and hopes that you have or will do the same. Again, think about contact ....and Happy Birthday!