Hello Linda,

I found this in the Patriot Index for Joseph Darling:

DARLING, JOSEPH Ancestor #: A029815
Service: MASSACHUSETTS Rank: PRIVATE
Birth: 10-29-1746 FRAMINGHAM MASSACHUSETTS
Death: 11- -1824 BENNINGTON VERMONT
Service Description: 1) CAPT.GARDNER,COL.BROOKS
Residence 1) City: FRAMINGHAM - State: MASSACHUSETTS
Spouse Name 1)EUNICE FLAGG 2)SARAH HOUGHTON

I'm also including a link to the DAR website that you may find helpful. It discusses membership into DAR.

http://dar.org/natsociety/content.cfm?id=92&hd=n&pf=...

Sincerely,
Joyce
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