Yes - love it! May I 'steal' Her Majesty?
Alas, I don't believe I am resting in your rubbish bin, but should you discover me there on one of your housecleaning ventures, please be in touch :)
From your previous posting, it seemed as if you did not want to do any work in tracing your family tree; hence, the comment that you quoted.
I write to many distant cousins, requesting and/or extending an invitation to collaborate. The response rate is not exactly high, so this issue may be one which extends beyond members who keep private trees.
And just to place your mind at ease: 'I' derive no secret thrill from being able to peruse your family tree, while you are unable to see mine. Good grief!