I am not sure if I could be the one, but with my life seems to be unraveling, I have come to the awareness, that Tons of secrets have surrounded me. I do know I have family members who married Anderson, and one was/ is an attorney I was told I was born Premie in Chattanooga, and had to remain in the hospital for 6-7 months? There was some story regarding a younger Relative Rickey that my mother was raising, brothers Son the father and Mother lived in Ca, and did not want Rickey, or so I was told( So many Liars). The Father came in Chattanooga, left and returned to California. Riverside/ Long beach, Loma, Bert and many others. Now they say this Rickey died of Aids? My brother and sister were 20 / 22 years older than I. Mothers surname Durham, Fathers family Cox it is his sister who married Anderson. Now I find even an 80 year old has called a cousin to tell him to tell his brother tell his daughter take the family ancestry off public, now she knows I am searching! What a twisted family. I am alone, the Durham family has corrupted my daughter and she is staying with some in Georgia and now wont let me see my grand child......any similarities? My grand baby is my biology.