I read the response you gave to the inquiry. THANK YOU FOR REMINDING PEOPLE TO BE COMPASSIONATE. some OF US WERE TOLDLIES, AND THEN told NO ONE WANTED YOU, YOU WILL NEVER BE LOVED, AND NEVER KNOWING WHY.. I have encountered this, not only this but the elder COUSIN 80 YEARS OLD, who could tell this Secret, and ease some of the misery they have caused and now do She has been calling everyone telling them to make their Trees private. Everyone has known throughout my life, but me. MY has been so horrendous! I thought that by marrying and having a child and a family of my very own, and after 7 of the older 1919 generation has died, being uninvited to Family gatherings, which I thought What the Hell has gotten into you, especially after my divorce, left in $90,000.00 of debt, barely making 25,000.00 goin to school, I had to drop out, protect and care for our daughter, and No Help or making excuses. It has effected my daughter so bad, She informed me, I will not be like you and Hated". I am Devastated, in so many ways. Now trying with what energy and resources I have to at least find out why. I thought my Abuse and the Abusers this woman, her older children, some uncles older kids(20-30-years,) cruel family was behind me, and I thought I would have my own family to, give and be Loved. It is Hard. Being left out. Worse on your children, of everything, the will, expect an old house at 18yrs old, go in debt to hire and has repaired, etc. and this Brother had the Attorney my mothers' and his friend, after she died, instead of finalizing the home to me, he was trying to put in probate which at that time I would of had No where to live. But Mr. cox my taught as dad, went in and confronted and stopped it. It has been horrendous journey, but I thank God he has kept me, and hope he brings my daughter and my grand baby back..