Please do not let what you think other family members will think this is about you and you are giving up time spent wth your brother because of it. If anyone doesn't want to meet him that is their choice and who cares what other people think. You don't have to make it public on facebook, sent a message I did and found a cousin I hadn't seen in 47 years since he was 3. He wanted to know about his family and some of his history and I filled in what I could. His reaction was that he had family he didn't know about. We also like with my brother exchange phone calls and that is between me and him like yours should be. If you let others dictate who you will know and talk to you are giving into their dictating your life and that is not up to them. Please please get ahold of your brother you are wasting time you could be spending with him.
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