Hi Cathy. My family line is through your mum. See below.
Elizabeth Ann Assender
Reginald Assender (father of elizabeth)
Diana Close (mother of Reginald)
Comfort Phelps (Mother of Diana)
Sarah Cox (mother of Comfort)
Mary Ann Phelps (daughter of sarah)
Fanny Stephens - My great grandmother (daughter of Mary Ann Phelps)
Cecilia Thackray - my grandmother (daughter of Fanny)
George Walker - my dad (son of Cecilia)_
A bit of a long tree, but all checked out.
Good luck with your meeting with your cousin and with the rest of your research. If I can help in any way, just shout.
Rgds
Lynda