Hi Gill

In order to ascertain if this Mary M PULHAM of 1895 is the same you will need to purchase your grandfathers birth certificate & the Maud M PULHAM of 1895. Cross match the parents names for a match. Also obtain your grandfathers marriage certificate as this will record his fathers name in full and his occupation.

You can search the births for FREE and ONLINE via this web site. To kick start here is Maud Marys's birth reg:

Births Dec 1894
PULHAM Maud Mary Ipswich 4a 873