As a result of your awesome helpfulness I believe I have found my great Grandmother's grave! She is buried in the same cemetery as her parents! In my grandfather's obit it says his mother was, "Margaret Steck of Spokane Washington." I'd had the hardest time finding her, but then I looked in the cemetery where her folks are buried and found a Maggie May SPECK! I then found a death index record for Margaret M. Speck from Spokane for the same date! I'm so excited! This has been a brick wall for me for a while now. Thank you so much!