Thank you for all the information first.

Answers the best I can.

Most I have seen only have others names if they gave permission, like Bettie for Ida. Mary Catherine's family had been at Yell Township, Boone County, Iowa,USA at the same time 1852, they must have 'allowed' her to stay,

WMF was divorce happy, he divorced Vada 2x's. Betties 2nd husband and WMF are seen on documents before their marriage. I will admit what you are thinking crossed my mind, but he attended the wedding party and had his picture taken with Bettie and Pinks parents. That makes me think e acted as a father, most men I don't think would if she wasn't his.

It is Daniel Slane, would be ironic is she did lose both to the Civil War, he has 2 stones his son from his 2nd marriage made Mary Catherine's and Daniel tombstones.

Leatha reportedly was Leatha Elzada her obit list her siblings. That how I just remembered I have your husbands last name.
Letha 'Sally' Elzada Lawrence
Birth: Dec. 13, 1920
Missouri, USA
Death: Dec. 5, 1958
Oroville
Butte County
California, USA [Edit Dates]

Graveside services for Letha 'Sally' Elzada Lawrence, 37, who died recently in an Oroville hospital will be held tomorrow at 11 am. in the Live Oak Cemetery under the direction of the Block Funeral Home of Gridley.
She had been a resident of Live Oak for the past 19 years, living with her sister, Mrs. Ethel Pendergrass at 803 W. 13th St.

Surviving are a daughter, Betty Lawrence of Yuba City; a son, Jerry Stout, also of Yuba City; three sisters, Mrs. Ethel Pendergrass of Live Oak, Mrs. Winnie Henslee of Reed Springs, Mo. and Mrs. Beulah Ritchie of Sacramento; three brothers, Richard Holt of Olivehurst, and Troy and Calvin Holt of Reed Springs, Missouri..
The Appeal Democrat - 11 Dec 1958)

Raymond 1910 uncle & Roy uncle Troys line?

Any errors with this ?

Thank you Mrs H

Sandy