Hello

I am also researching the Grovers of Odiham - specifically Thomas Grover Blacksmith, son of John Grover.

Thomas GROVER b. abt 1817 in Alton or Odiham, Hampshire d. 26 Mar 1871 in Odiham, Hampshire
m. 31 Aug 1840 in Thorpe, Surrey at St Mary
Charlotte SMITH b. abt 1820 in Odiham, Hampshire d. 1863 Hartley Wintnay, Hampshire
They had 3 children:
Thomas b. abt 1846, m. 1871 Annie WATMORE b. 1852 = 0 children found
James b. abt 1853, m. 1874 Hannah LONE b. 1851 = 7 children
Mary Jane b. 1857 bap 3 Jul 1858 m. Arthur Richard STEARN b. 1855 d. 1891 = 6 children; 2 m. David PRICE b. 1846 = 1 child

Thomas GROVER 2 m. 28 Nov 1864 in Queen Square, Holburn, Middlesex at St George the Martyr (London)
Sarah KINGSTON b. abt 1829 in Froyle, Hampshire d. ? (1881 census = servant age 50)
They had 1 child: Henry b. abt 1867 (1871 census) no further info

Residences:
1840 ~ Thorpe, Surrey
1841/1851/1861 ~ High Street, Odiham, Hampshire
1864 ~ 8 Devonshire St (on marriage record - Sarah's residence?)
1871 ~ Blacksmith Shop, The Bury, Odiham, Hampshire