Take Rte 19 south into Connecticut and follow it to the end. At the end of 19 take a left onto Rte 190. Keep on Rte 190 into Union til you see the right hand turn for Rte 89 (Abt 4-7 miles on 190). Take the right onto Rte 89 and go over the bridge (I84 is beneath that) and you will go up over a small hill to a very very sharp corner with a road going straight off it. Take the corner (very carefully I might add as its very bad) which will be a right and keep going til you go down a long hill and can see Lake Chaffee to your right. Keep going til you see Bubba T's general store. Right before Bubba T's is a right hand turn to Old Town Road and you take that. The Lake Chaffee Fire House is visible at this point and the graveyard is behind the firehouse. I do not know how many stones still stand it has been years since I visited it but there may still be some there. Good luck.