Found this surfing around:
Shadrach B. PARLER was born 11 May 1812 in South Carolina and died 15 March 1887. He married Mary Elizabeth [Anne?] SHIRER (daughter of John W. SHIRER and Ann CARR) 21 Nov 1839 in South Carolina. She was born 5 Mar 1823 in South Carolina and died 15 Dec 1902 in South Carolina,. Both are buried in Trinity Lutheran Cemetery, Elloree, South Carolina. 22,23

Perhaps a poke around Trinity Lutheran Cemetery would be helpful?
Betty Fox