Kathy, If it is overwhelming for some or all of you on mailing list than ask ancestry to change their mailing system on what you get notified on. Many of us pay ancestry a lot of money to have subscriptions here and should not have to take our thread elsewhere because some people on the mailing list have no interest in the Martins. How would any of you like it if someone told you to go post your family elsewhere when many of you may be paying ancestry a lot of money to have accounts. And you wonder why people might get mad??? HMMMM