i am going to pick up his birth certificate(copy) tommorow at the town hall where he lived and will post more becuase according to the town clerk she said his dads name was diffrent then what was listed in the obit of my dad. i thought my dads dad name was virginio b.mello however, it turns out its eugeneio, spelling i'm not sure so to be certain when i get that document, i will post everything on it. i am really hopin someone can help becuase without being in touch with any family at all i am in a pickle. however on goes the quest and i will not give up.