Hi Betty:
The Corroll County Genealogical Society, INC. members have transcribed most if not all of the current cemetery head stones in Carroll, Co., MD and published them in a series of volumns. You may be able to arrange a look-up.
Their web site follows:
www.carr.org/eegs/Their membership is quite reasonable, $10.00 for adults, and their newsletter the "Carolltonian' is outstanding. The best I have ever read.
You may also want to try "Find A Grave" (free) at
http://www.findagrave.com/ Good luck with you quest...
Regards, Jack Novicki