My husband and I were going thru the old posts on the message boards at Ancestry.com and came upon your posts regarding Julia Ann Brumfield marrying Thomas Jefferson Kelm and having a daughter named Lily M. Kelm. Do you have a middle name for Lily or a spouse?
My husbands great grandparents on his mother's side would seem to fit with this information that you posted.
There maybe a link between him and you.
Please let us know.
Beth and Mike Sullivan