I have a Joseph Benway whose parents were Anthony and Paulina. Joseph married my great great aunt Harriet Hull in Granby, NY at his father's house in 1852. They had a daughter, Amanda, in1853. Joseph died in the war at Fort Jefferson Regimental Hospital in 1865.
I also have been looking for more info on them.
My email is
leeweant@yahoo.com and would like to stay in touch to exchange info.
Bonnie Weant