Hello Anne
It has been a long time but we're still searching. Can you tell me when your father was born, I can't find Robert Gray, but my mom remembers meeting him when she was young. The 1900 Census list two brothers and three sisters for my grandfather.
Harry was born in 1900, and one census has his brothers as;
Phillip, Roderick, Germaine, Harry and his sisters as; Francine, Louiseanne, Philomine
I've found another census that shows
12 3 Gray Ma?e M Head S May 15 1849 51
13 3 Gray Gene? F Wife M Apr 3 1850 50
14 3 Gray Albert M Son S Mar 14 1878 23
15 3 Gray Ambroise M Son S May 1 1879 20
16 3 Gray Maggy F Daughter S Nov 8 1889 12
17 3 Gray Elizabeth F Daughter S Nov 1 1897 4
I'm thinking there's a couple Grays in LacStAnne and tis may be creating some confusion. Interesting enough, the 1900 Census list my grandfather as Henry Gordon Gray, but he was Harry Gordon Gray.