Hi,
another daughter of Ulrich Wessel and Anna Baumann, Maria, married captain Clemens Anton Vechtrup in Lüdinghausen in 1826. She died 1872 in Lüdinghausen. She was born about 1800-1803. They had no children.
another daughter, Sophie, who was born between 1803-1810, was living with her sister and mother in Lüdinghausen and died there in 1849.
Anna Wessel, née Baumann, died in Lüdinghausen in 1856, leaving her daugther Maria behind.
Are you sure your Elisabeth Wessel is the daugther of Ulrich Wessel (who was a tax collector) and Maria Anna Baumann? The only relative mentionend in the church book in 1856 is the daugther Maria Vechtrup-Wessel in Lüdinghausen.
Best Regards from Germany, Stefan