This is great! Thank you so much! I didn't expect so much help. I remember the name Stella being mentioned when I was a young child, Aunty Stella or something. It isn't someone I met to my knowledge and I hadn't even remembered until I saw this. I don't know if it is wishful thinking on my part but i tis nice to think that this could be right.

This is possibly a very obvious question to ask, but is there any way to confirm things or is it always just a case of best guess work?

I did see that it was suggested I send for records in the first reply and that is something I'm doing, is this the best way? I'm just thinking this could prove to be very expensive if it will cost me near £10 every time lol