Hi Jeff -
the Headys and Castetters intermarried like crazy. And the bunch that went to Erie, KS kept in contact with the IN group. They were a wonderful family. The mother later married and moved to Iowa - and the Erie. KS knew of her and kept contact with her.
Pat Heady - (my parents and grandparents were from Pittsburg. KS)
the Pierce/Pearce family wouldnt let Lucy (Lucretia) marry Andrew Jackson Heady. Lucy later married a Jessup and had 5 chn and lived in Iowa.