Hi Donna,
I came across some more of my files. In it I found a link to a website that includes McFarland and Upham information. The link to the website is:
http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/5637/pafg54.htm#1145According to the website, the info. on Lydia's parents, grandparents, and children is as follows:
Grandparents:
Josiah Upham b. abt 1709, m. Judith b. abt 1713, married abt. 1734
Parents: Jabez Upham b. 6 May 2735 in Athol, Middlesex, MA. Died in Waldoboro, Lincoln, ME. Married Hannah Burgess on 10 May 1769 in Barre, Worcester, MA. Hannah is the daughter of Ebenezer Burges b. abt. 1715 married to Hannah Laughton in abt. 1740. Hannah Laughton was b. abt. 1719.
Children of Jabez Upham and Hannah Burgess:
Ephraim Upham
Lydia Upham
Judith Upham
Jabez Upham b. 30 Sep 1775 Bristol, Lincoln, ME
Josiah Upham
Isaac Upham b. 3 Jun 1779 Bristol, Lincoln, ME
John Upham
Hannah Upham b. 23 Jun 1783 in Bristol, Lincoln, ME
d. 22 Jan 1796
Deborah Upham
Abigail Upham
Simeon Upham b. 30 Aug 1791 Bristol, Lincoln, ME