I think you are right about Alice Barringer. I did a search for the marriges but the books are not readable.
I will ask to see if anyone has the records. Heck I need all three of his wifes.
As far as his death certificate. He was not listed so he may have died before 1910.
I have been looking at 1860 census's all night and found him and his family as Brumlow.
Found out that Margaret (Thomas's little sister) was listed as blind in that census. Neat cause she was a music teacher later in life.
Do you have any suggestions on finding a burial for Thomas S (not sure about the Stanhope) anymore... Brumley?
Thank you again for all your help and suggestions.