I found an obituary amongst my grandmother's things that might help me find her friends. Does anyone know this family???:
"Grace G. Proctor, 6 months old daughter of Mr. and Mrs. W.M. Proctor, died at the residence, 2619 Clark St., yesterday morning. Funeral services were held this morning at 10 o'clock at the residence. The Rev. W.P. Head officiated. Burial was in Myrtle Hill cemetery under direction of F.T. Blount. Besides her parents, she is survived by one sister and two brothers."
The "sister" could be the "Nellie" Proctor Miller I have been looking for.