I checked this over and over. My gg grandmother supposedly died in 1905, but is indeed in the 1910 census. Her name was Emeline, in the census listed as Emma. Age matches as does the yrs married, so my gg grandfather did not remarry...it's her! Her kids are there too...I visited the cemetery and the stone says she died in 1905 too. Only thing I can come up with was stone was put up later with an error of the date?