Hi Grace
I wonder if this is him?
Surname:
STAINGiven Names: Joseph
Event: B
Father: Joseph
Mother: Helen
Birth Place: MELB
Year: 1845
Reg Number: 7901
Denomination: PRESBYTERIAN
Parish:
MELBOURNE & GEELONG
Fiche: 146
Helen was often used interchangeably for Ellen.
However, there is a marriage of a Joseph
STAIN to Helen GORDON in 1844 in same parish so could be their child. No other children found, nor Helen's death (as GORDON or FARQ).
How about this one?
Surname:
STEANGiven Names: Joseph
Event: D
Father: Joseph
Mother: Helen
FARQUHARSONAge: 76
Birth Place: WARW
Year: 1874
Reg Number: 4123
Going by his age at death, I think this must be the death of Jos snr with an error for his mother's name (gave his wife's)??? OR there is a mix up somewhere in the generations...
May be worth downloading a copy of the death cert above, tho it may not give you much additional info as it is an early one. At least you know he came from Warwickshire!