There is a Joseph John J. Grattan in the Minnesota death index, born October 18, 1916 out of State, and died in Hennepin County August 25, 1975
In the 1925 census, there is a Clara Graton, age 25, widowed, with son John, age 5, born in New York. They are living with Clara's parents in Aitkin county, John and Emma Nelson.
Clara Nelson married Felix A. Graton on June 23, 1914, and then Clara Graton married Paul Graton on June 7, 1920. John is living with Paul and Clara and his two half sisters, in 1930. So perhaps Clara married brothers? Does this sound like the right person to be your Grandfather?
If you don't have your Grandfather's obit, I suggest you post another query to request a lookup.