Cynthia,
I am Joe DeOrdio, Jr's. wife, Karen Anderson DeOrdio. He is Joe & Amelia (Golden/Gulcynski) DeOrdio's eldest son. We live in North Adams, MA. I'll share your e-mail w/Joe, as he is still interested in tracking his family history. We are well aware of how estranged they were! If you want to get in touch w/us directly, you can e-mail me at
k.j.deordio@mcla.edu.
Cheers, Karen