Found an amazing gravestone at the St. Joseph's Cemetery in Ritchfield Springs, NY. Charles Ganey (I think the last name starts w/ a "G". ?"C"?). He fought in the Civil War and died @ Antietam 9/17/1862. Wife Martha. Three yr. old daughter, Gracie buried near him.
The stone is broken and is propped up next to a stump. Contact me and I'll send you a photo.