Jack,
Ref Jesse Yocham/Etta Blaylock:
Here is the Blaylock info that I found in the 1900 census. I did not find any Yochams (or variants) in this ED nor in Choctaw Twp in Oklahoma Territory. From the entries below it seems that the Blaylocks had been in IT for a short time but there is another Blaylock family some pages away with older children who had been born there.
The first hhold shown includes 'Ettie' and shows father born GA and mother TN, more as you expected. The next household, John Blaylock, looks like a very strong possibility for Etta's brother John.
1900, Indian Territory, ChoctawNation, Township10N, Sheet119A, ED75
(ancestry.com image 47 of 83)
420,429
Blaylock Mollie,Head,W,F,Nov,1854,45,Wd,-,7,6,
Tennessee,Tennessee,Tennessee,-,-,-,
Day laborer,0,2,no,no,yes,R,-H,-
Alexander,Minnie,Daughter,F,Aug,1877,22,Wd,-,1,1,
Arkansas,Georgia,Tennessee,-,-,-,Day laborer,
2,0,no,no,yes,-,-,-,-
Blaylock,Anne,Daughter,W,F,Feb,1879,21,D?,-,1,1,
Arkansas,Georgia,Tennessee,-,-,-,
Day laborer,2,-,no,no,yes,-,-,-,-
--------,Ettie,Daughter,W,F,Dec,1882,17,S,-,-,-,
Arkansas,Georgia,Tennessee,-,-,-,
Day laborer,2,-,no,no,yes,-,-,-,-
--------,G?,Son,W,M,Sept,1886,13,S,-,-,-,
Arkansas,Georgia,Tennessee,-,-,-,
Day laborer,2,-,no,no,yes,-,-,-,-
Alexander,Willie,G-son,W,M,Sept,1896,3,S,-,-,-,
Arkansas,Texas,Arkansas,-,-,-,-,-,-,-,-,-,-,-,-,-
Blaylock,Rosa,G-,G-daughter,W,F,Nov,1898,1,S,-,-,-,
IndianTerritory,Arkansas,Arkansas,-,-,-,-,-,-,-,-,-,-,-,-,-
Next household:
421,430
Blaylock,John,Head,W,M,Oct,1873,26,M,2,-,-,
Arkansas,Georgia,Tennessee,-,-,-,
Farmer,0,-,no,no,yes,R,-,F,359
-------,----a,Wife,W,F,Feb,1878,22,M,2,1,0,
Arkansas,Iowa?,Tennessee,-,-,-,
-,-,-,no,no,yes,-,-,-,-
1900, Indian Territory, ChoctawNation, Township11N, Sheet32A, Page127, ED75
ancestry image 63 of 83)
Blaylock,David,Head,W,M,Sept,1849,50,M,22,-,-,
Illinois,Pennsylvania,Pennsylvania,-,-,-,Miller & Gr?,
1?,-,yes,yes,yes,R,-H,-
--------,Marg-----,Wife,W,F,Nov,1855,44,M,22,9,7,
Arkansas,Tennessee,Arkansas,-,-,-,-,
-,-,yes,no,yes,-,-,-,-
--------,Myrtle?,Daughter,W,F,May,1880,19,S,-,-,-,
IndianTerritory,Illinois,Arkansas,-,-,-,-,
-,-,yes,yes,yes,-,-,-,-
--------,Tilda? S,Daughter,W,F,Feb,1885,15,S,-,-,-,
IndianTerritory,Illinois,Arkansas,-,-,-,-,
-,2,yes,yes,yes,-,-,-,-
--------,David L,Son,Dec,1886,13,S,-,-,-,
IndianTerritory,Illinois,Arkansas,-,-,-,-,
-,2,yes,no,yes,-,-,-,-
--------,Ada A,Daughter,Apr,1888,12,S,-,-,-,
IndianTerritory,Illinois,Arkansas,-,-,-,-,
-,2,yes,yes,yes,-,-,-,-
--------,Nannie? L,Daughter,W,F,Dec,1889,10,S,-,-,-,
IndianTerritory,Illinois,Arkansas,-,-,-,-,
-,2,no,no,yes,-,-,-,-
--------,L----- F?,Son,W,M,Mar,1891,9,S,-,-,-,
IndianTerritory,Illinois,Arkansas,-,-,-,-
,-,0,-,-,-,-,-,-,-,-
---------,John H,Son,-,Oct,1895,4,S,-,-,-,
IndianTerritory,Illinois,Arkansas,-,-,-,-,
-,0,-,-,-,-,-,-,-,-
1900 Column headings are:
Dwelling No
No of family in order of visitation
Name
Relationship
Color or race
Sex
Date of birth - month
Date of birth - year
Age at last birthday
Single,married,widowed or divorced
Number of years of present marriage
Mother of how many children
Number of these children living
Place of birth
Father place of birth
Mother place of birth
Year of immigration to the US
Number of years in the US
Naturalization
Occupation
Months not employed
Attended school (in months)
Can read
Can write
Can speak english
Owned or Rented
Owned free or mortgaged
Farm or house
Number of farm schedule
-- end of questions --
There were no Willoughby families in this ED75 (that I could see, some of the images are very difficult), let me know if you want me to post any of those if you get any clues to Ann Willoughby. There were a few Willoughby households in Oklahoma Territory, Choctaw Township, but no Yochams that I could make out. These particular census images were the only ones I had easy access to this week, as I mentioned I could have missed something relevant - some of them get very dark at the bottom.
I was just informed today that one of our Camp connections was in Antlers, OK, during this period. Antlers was also in Choctaw Nation, IT, it is SW of Blaine, about 150 miles from Cowlington and about 45 miles north of Paris, TX. I don't know much of this story yet.
Hope this is useful somehow, sometime, someplace. All mistakes are the fault of the transcriber :)
Sue