Hi Sherry and Steve,
There is a STOKES message board at this URL:
http://boards.ancestry.com/mbexec?htx=board&r=rw&p=s...You may receive more help from the people who frequent that message board. This board is for YALDEN research, and it would be easier for people to find your posts on the other board.
There is no message board for TRUSTAM however.
Thank you and good luck with your research!
Iris Reily
Administrator of YALDEN message board