I have an uncle - great uncle, I think name(d) John Dalor (Dolar) who used to be Anson Wheelock. He was married to my aunt Lois in San Jose and had Billy. I'm 34 and he was a few years older than I was. I haven't seen Lois or Billy in years and years.

I do know Uncle John disappeared in the late 70's and was never heard from again. He was in business with my father Mike Gilliam, but the relation came through my mom, Jackie Coleman Gilliam (who's mother was Melva Wheelock and grandfather was Melvin Butler Wheelock).